NEW YEAR, NAAA, SHOULD BE NEW YOU...

New Year. New Life. New Chapter. New beginning. New discipline. New discovery. New YOU.

Attitude in life is carried through future. There's constant change but there's constant adaptation, wherever you are and whoever you are with. 

Mind your decisions, mind your mind. It should probably be leading you to your dictatorial way of thinking. It directs you to where you should be. And by that, I mean, that is good, you’re the captain of your life!

A lot of new things come into people's minds, but the real score? Only date changes, even people do not change in terms of when this occasion will enter. It all existed in our minds and we can’t control it ‘cause this is a tradition. This is our world and we have to make it worth living into and for. We have to make things happen because the people around us are living with it. It’s a bandwagon!

Here it goes... Kissing and thanking parents, cooking all good dishes, displaying good luck sources, inviting people to come around, partying with family, at 12 am of January of every New Year are not even required but simply, a tradition. It should have a good shot.

Look at what is happening before this is celebrated. The normal routine. And there’s no way that when the first call arrives from January one, it’s 60% possible that we will answer it, but may not listen to it totally, like, 10% or less, non-sense.

I observed that as the day goes by, and this year ends, it will be the same cycle, the money, mood, feelings, people, acquaintances, dreams and real life goals. It's just that we think straight forward as if we can be NEW US within a day. The last day of the year's last month has nothing to do with change, change begins when we're absolutely ready for it.

The catch is the progress. I go for progress, we don’t actually change but we strive, hard, to make things happen. To develop skills and talents in us. We try to indulge ourselves to an activity we’ve never been before, think of new things to be learned and ask how you are going to enjoy it, how are we going to make it work?

Well, simple, put your heart on it, set your mood, and choose the people who you want to face in that moment. The passion to do new and amazing things are driven by our mentality that it improves us, it empowers us, it gives us new beginning. That this life introduces us every time to doors that are newly opened like a brand new house, car, and a lot!

And I love being introduced to anything, I like new, I like the future, I like to meet people and get acquainted with the old ones. Best things in life are free, we should all be dreaming on. Continue the goal we thought we’ve been missing.

I have never thought of leaving at least a piece of my dream there, hosting, talking in front of the camera, acting, writing, and singing. No, not yet, now I have to begin moving, competitors are everywhere, in fact, they are always there, the target goal could be affected, guard your ways, guard your plans and strategies, before we all end up in the moment where we’re stuck and can’t breathe.

And when it's a new year, there should be maturity. Not a change entirely.

When it’s love, it’s might. You're cooking and thinking of the next celebrations with someone, taking them to your house and have a family meet-up. Weew. Just because, Wayne Dyer said, "the real magic in relationships means absence of judgment of others." Therefore, you won't be bothered what to wear and how to move, like piece of Santa's daughter.

And there I thought of my cousin Ann. She’s like me and I’m like her. We’re alike and we do love partying alone, when we smoke what we smoke, we talk about what we want to talk about, love, confusion, people, men, life. Well I’ll go with men and life. They’re good partners, like lasagna supreme and iced tea. We lead the group to partying and laughing, we both entertain like heaven. But there are also differences, I don’t cook and she does, I’m not a family girl, she is. I’m a career woman and she’s a good supporter, I’m active she’s passive. LOL. We’re good partners, in crime and laughter. The attitude is complicated though, bitch in short.

This New Year, no plans of change. Just me. My annoying eyebrows and petite body. Pretty face, yea, they say. The fireworks boom here and there, I talked to a girl named Paris and she’s a speaker of the English Language. At six, I have to say she’s a bitch, but I got to be friends with her, Meagan and Ann are now part of her list before 2016.

We were trying to look for shot buddies, two cool guys came over and ate, no alcohol right now, this is a good mood year I think. The moon and star beside it smiles back at me, and they’re talking to me while we’re looking for my sister in the boulevard, it says, “your life will be at its brightest.”

Underneath my castle where I rest, I’m still wondering what it would be like when I finish my thesis, graduate, apply into jobs online and walk in to call centers in Makati or Quezon City, enter into a corporate industry, start business, grow a company, continue working with my art, in lyric writing and organizing parties, music. I want to live my life like fairy tale as much as I want to live my life like a party with the loudest music that can be played.

How I look forward into the future, the progress, the independent life. I want to travel the world, put up a house in it, marry at 27 and have four kids, two boys and gals. It’s different, I’m dreaming and daydreaming a very beautiful life ahead.

But I’m thinking too much of myself, what have I done that I want to make all these things fast, sustain the idea that I just have to help out my family and be good to all the people around me. They love me or hate me, and that’s a part of a growing mind, I keep up with the trend, that progress is the catch, courage and heart are the driving tools and the move to all the dreams is 95%, don’t be stuck, don’t get laid, try to be a bad person sometimes, choose when to make your ego big and small. Face the truth, the reality, why? I’m an optimist and realist, I will face ‘what is’ and work with the ‘what if’s’.

Now I’m playing my covers and songs on the radio, I admire what I do, I hope the others will. Because it’s heaven when you get to hook the people with your music and style. When you don't have to explain something because your built identity says it all, you’re yourself, you’re a real star girl, you’re different, from all the Hollywood stars and indie stars, give a worthy view to yourself, a reflection that will last until you reach the peak of your life.

I’m young, and by heart, I’m mature and old.

Happy New You!

How To Be Effortlessly Visibly Beautiful

Everyone’s dream seems to be related, if not always, almost related to fame and privilege.

Being visible to everyone, noticed by anyone, somehow boosts someone’s confidence.

Do you even remember the first time you dressed up like a Barbie girl or like one of the princesses in one of the fairytale books you have read?

Do you remember when you told yourself, "gosh, I'm a total hippie!" or "damsel in distress"?

When was the last time you saw a guy looking at you like you're the most beautiful girl he has ever seen? Or when did your classmates ever mentioned that you are looking beautiful and astounding?

Do you miss these times? I know everyone would. All the flattery words and motvational speeched we’ve heard have always been hee, we just have to appreciate what we’ve had and what we have now.

I am not a perfectionist, nor an expert fashion icon yet I know something about adding a fashion to your attitude. The millenial style you might say. LOL. But these might help you somehow.

First, I usually deal with lots of trends in women's society created for guys to explore their interest with girls that are, well, classy, sassy, trendy, pretty, whatever. I check it out via scoial media outlets like instagram, facebook, twitter, tumblr.com and other portals that are easily managed for exposing a person’s lifestyle and creativity.

Second, I always keep in mind that acting like a lady while still young makes you a respected person though you are not a duchess in a mansion or a daughter of a lord like, let's say in British community. I have books with the same exact theme like Anita Burgh’s ‘Azure Bowl’ and Nora Roberts’ ‘Dream Trilogy’.

The truth is, you just have to know what you really want and be the star on your own. Meaning, each one of us has a light within that we are yet to discover. Don’t be sad if you haven’t found that light yet, but one sure thing is that it’ll shine, one day, and you haven’t even thought about it.

These are not tips, not even forced propositions but if you would accept these challenges of mine to boost your confidence more, better get your nerves to where you actually want to start and act on it. Do remember that the gap between dream and you is ACTION.

Think simply of the moments when you were still a kid and your mom would wipe your tears when you cry or change your diapers in the middle of the night. Now, you transformed into a superwoman and you want to be like someone else, but the best thing to be 'someone' is to be yourself, The one who thinks independently, mature, smartly, creatively, not judgmental, kind, and optimistic.

Think of one famous person who you really look up to and that you want to become like him or her. Have you noticed that they have also gone through a lot of rejections, struggles, and stayed humble as they are now that they are on top? If you have, then you're looking up to someone who is a real inspiration, at least for you.

I'll share mine. I absolutely love Taylor Swift. She is America's sweetheart and a real influential woman today. Through her music since 16, she showed her fearlessness and her patience of waiting for her dreams to be right in front of her. Through the years, since I was thirteen, five years ago, I started listening to her music. She's a philanthropist.

 She gives everything back to people who adores her! Taylor's brilliant and passionate too as the president of the Big Machine Records, Scott Borchetta, said in an interview when Swift was still in her teenage years and trying to live her dream.

Like her, I want to explore every opportunity that is there for me. Because I love music, I went back to my compositions when I was seventeen and started playing a melody for them. See people sing to mys songs, record again and again, make albums or novels. Yet, I still don't know where to start, really.

I'm a graduating student and I would dare starting my journey now.

This is for you, if you are reading this, your attitude is very important in achieving what you really want to be. Your style should be different. You should show your charisma, your adorable face.

Be humble, think of your habit, what you love to do, your interest and then your dreams. Then start walking to your aims. Is it too big? don't worry, in your head, everything is possible. don't forget that. If it's in your head, then you're on your way. 

And to make all of those real? Start chasing what you want. Rock the world, rock with your friends, share your talent and be an ultimate rockstar! If you are, but if you're a dreamer like a business kind of life, then start on your own, growing takes time.

This is for all the young girls out there, because you are young, you feel the urge to start over easily eagerly, because we have burning passion in everything we do.

When you are into writing, still, you can hit the road to success! Start blogging, writing journals. Anything that exercises your writing abilities.

Oops, don't forget to get yourself a god coach, Everyone needs that, we may start with our parents, friends, teachers. Someone you can rely on, show your true self to. In business talks, market yourself, know everybody in the market, learn the strategies and think about all the aspects of the industry you want to enter.

And if being a rock star is your option, don't deny it, show everyone though they laugh at you, enjoy what you do. It definitely makes them sad I tell you. Seeing you in that stage, singing or speaking about something that's inspiring and important, they will feel ashamed. Again, you're standing on your feet, keep them on the ground baby.

Your friends, I mean the true ones will help you, and will look up to you. Your family on the other hand will hold you and support you wherever you might be. A lot pf people love you.

Reach out to people. don't be too timid or shy, create a beautiful mess!

The society is the key to knowing what you really want. It's defining what they want to see so you could deliver it to them in your own way without pretending.

Time is to come, over the years and the next generation, Time will never stop ticking and moving for everyone to see that the world is ready to open. The earth's core sees the spin frequency and you have to target, you have to know, when do you really want to go and push your dream to reality?

Take a pause, don't end everything just reading this, why don't you go and sit right there, think of all the possible opportunities you can have for yourself. Do it. Go for it! Think right and be the rockstar of your life!